Let me ask you one question, though, since this whole "DON'T pour out your heart and tell her how much she means to you" thing is SO counterintuitive to me, bordering on total b.s. to my way of thinking.
However, I also have no doubt it's 100% TRUE.
But my question is, Am I allowed to ask her if she still loves me? Because to my simple peabrain, all of this other stuff is just gobbledegook on top of that basic foundation. I'm beginning to suspect that she hasn't loved me for a very long time. (devoted, yes -- love, romantic love, no).
