WTF am I the only one who's ALWAYS trying to do all the work???
Get used to it if you want to fix the problems. Usually it is the betrayed spouse that seems to do most of the work - suck it up
This is not about balancing out who does what. You have to step up to the plate if you want to try and save your M/R and keeping score isn't going to help matters
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)