Oh,Matilda, I'm tearing up right now, because our situations are so similar. My H too gave me two pages of how our assets should be divided. He asked me what I thought about it. This was early during our separation. I told him I wasn't going to give him an answer without thinking about it. Well, we have been separated for 7 months right now. Things seem to get better and he comes around and then he retreats. The past few days have been rough again he is again talking D. My advice to you is just don't talk about the financial things until you are served. My H has threatened about 3 times to file, but has yet to. I'm so sorry, I know how bad this hurts. It sounds like you enjoy your DD as much as I enjoy my DDs. Try to do fun things with her without depending on her too much. Sometimes I go out with friends by myself or sometimes with other mother/daughters. It's hard because all of my friends are married. I'm here for you.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
