But (1) she hasn't sent it yet, meaning she is thinking it through before she does and (2) a separation isn't necessarily a bad thing.

There are still a lot of positive things in her email - look at them ....


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maybe we need to start over and see what's there


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I feel this is going to take a long time to figure out. This isn't something we'll attempt to fix in a month


AND .... she is willing to see a counsellor - what more can you ask for right now

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)