Blackfoot -- thanks! I am much better.

I really want my wife back, but the longer it goes on the easier this is getting to be.

It's like I letting go a little at a time. I thought that letting go, meant that I didn't love her or want her as my wife. Now, I think that letting go just means letting go of trying to control her and the marriage.

When I read some of the other threads, I'm amazed how long this can go on and how the ones that are fighting for the marriage keep fighting. But the way they fight changes over time.

I think I've changed a lot since my first post.