Don't press for the "I'm committed" response - most likely she doesn't even know herself. She is confused and is trying to sort things out. Pressuring her to give you a black and white answer will result in the negative - I guarantee you. After all, what would you do if someone pushed you against the wall about something you weren't sure about?
Back off, let her say her piece and just be supportive of it.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)