Quoting jethro:
So, I'm worried about her, but it's her thing to deal with...nothing I can do except offer to help here and there.


I'm sure you are helping her by just being you, epecially with all the positive changes you have made. A fun night out will be a good stress release too, or at least a positive distraction. And doing something that will engage her, that's good thinking, Jethro!

Have a great time! I'm off to boy scout camp with my little sweetie (and 42 other boy scouts/cubs/beavers - yikes! ) until Sunday morning. Then I trade off kids with H, to spend the rest of Sunday with my other little sweetie!

rjj