Choc,

If you push things before she is ready you will get a result you do not want.

I repeat, BACK OFF, and get DR. DO NOT FORCE R TALKS.

Two days ago, you wanted nothing to do with her. Now you want everything on your timetable.

SLOW DOWN.

Criminy, could you give her a chance to figure out what she wants to say and the space to come to you with it herself?

Best,
Oldtimer