IMP, mermaid: That's really what I'm trying to do, and last week, I felt like I had actually finally reached detachment. My mind was made up to give up. Was even going to stop posting here. Then of course, this week, all these tiny movements have occurred and now I have my doubts as to whether I should give up completely. I'll do what you've suggested and not take them for anything positive for now. That's what I needed to hear. I still want to be here for him if he needs me, but I'm certainly not going to be the one to go to him. Just going to keep living my life (that I'm finally starting to enjoy again!).

You are all amazing women... Thanks for your support...


M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D