Lissett:

Wow, that's the first time anyone has said my sitch has positives! Wait, I think stillme said my sitch was "not all that bad" after my first post. Wish I could see it that way! Guess it's all relative. I did get a huge "F YOU" screamed at me by him (first time he ever swore at me) the week we split. It still rings in my ears. But since then, his eyes are dead when he looks at me, if he even looks my way (except for the other day when we briefly caught eye contact).
I really do believe my H is still in there somewhere. Just want him to come out!


M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D