Grace: Thanks, I'll start reading it. Still have Chapman's 5LL to finish too - another one I felt I couldn't apply to my sitch, but again, might be helpful later on. (Hopefully?)
2moro, SF, Lissett: Gotta admit - I'd be ecstatic if H asked me how I was doing (not very good detachment/letting his actions control my reactions) but that's how little he's shown he still cares about me. I've known him since high school, so him acting as if he doesn't care is so not him. Through all this, he hasn't told me he still loves me and/or still cares about me. NOTHING of the sort. Pretty much just walked and that was it.
I'm trying to find out what OW thinks of me but friend I'm talking to doesn't even look at her when he's around her so doesn't know (or care). I think I'd be satisfied with her hating me...
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D