I'm going to be upbeat and listen. Not going to do any relationship talk. If she brings it up, I'll try to avoid it and/or just listen to her

This sounds really good.
Do not engage in R talk. Do not talk about what you can or will do for the R. Now is not the time. Have fun, steer the conversation to other things.

I've been collecting some of the stuff she left, but don't have any plans to ask her to get it.


good. dont mention it. you sound a lot better then you did days ago. keep us updated