Sashaying thru Seperation III

[Heartbroken]

I agree with what Lovely Olive stated before - my whole intent for my H to have his apt was TO spend MORE time with OW - so he could start seeing the real her and their real issues. Not sure if that's how it played out but he did end up saying goodbye to her. We cannot stop them from seeing the OP - they will be togther despite our efforts - more enticing when it's forbidden...

Hang in their MC and keep working on you. I have fallen off the GAL train and started focusing too soon on my H and now he seems to be pulling away from me slightly. He is going for counseling next week - stuff he says would upset me at this point WTH???? He is supposed to move back home at the end of the month and NOW he starts getting wishy washy.... The kids know he's coming back too so we can't not go through without tears on their part. H says he needs to fix himself before he can work on us - whatever that means! I have started to detach again and put me first. It's just so tiring.... I am thinking about him taking the kids Friday and Saturday and me being alone for once...

Keep up the good work and just remember it's baby steps all the way....

HB