H has not contacted me at all during these past 9 months, except to say he's coming to pick up boys or to see when I'm dropping them off. I think he TMed me once in Jan to ask me to bring something to the house for him. Even for Christmas, all we got was an email from him. Otherwise, I am always the one to initiate. That's why these 3 are so significant to me - even if they are not very personal. He could've waited till I saw him this weekend to tell me the things he messaged me, which is what he usually does. Actually admitted to friend today that he's in deep sh*t - but i think he was only speaking financially. Not going to get my hopes up (or get my hopes back, I should say) because for all I know, he's still head over heels in love with OW.
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D
