I guess I figure he left me for another..he now has another to look after and be concerned about.....he cries whenever I say that...I"ll always love you....I always be concerned about you....... I just dont figure he needs to know, hes the one who filed for divorce and took off his wedding ring. No OW talk no R talk.... no D talk He never brings it up either its like parallel universes to him. The other nite after he came to see Smudgie, I initiated a hug. he certainly hugged back. Maybe I was trying to show him the door was open a bit.

Last edited by a new 2moro; 05/16/07 04:34 PM.
Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest