MLC with young personal trainer

[Dom R]

Buncha things:
1. "not looking for a relationship" in no way deters "having hot but no comitments sex".

2. she said "unless things change". I dont see where you've asked for, and got a reply on, WHAT things?

3. the trip with him "and a friend", is obviously where she's going to end up having sex with him, if she hasnt already. there's no way you should in any way approve of such a trip.
Im new here, but I might suggest, while not making it a focal fighting point right now, making sure not to give any sign of approval from you.
When august rolls around, i think you should make it clear that either she cancels the trip, or you will divorce her. There's no way a married woman should be taking a trip without her husband, and with this guy.
If she wants to behave like a single woman, then she should become single first.

How's that for a 180? ha.