Maybe just wait & see how things are going when he gets home, etc. Go w/ your gut feelings as far as initiating and when.

I think you done good last night & this a.m.! You're showing him you respect his feelings and are supporting him.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10