No need for apologies. I wish I didn't know what it was or have to deal with it either, but I do and I plan to be in there 110%, all the way.
Yes, it is my H's complex, but there are lots of ways we can work together on this. That is one of the first things the C told me "you can't put all this on his shoulders and expect that he is the only one that has to deal with this" - and I don't. We are in this marriage together and we will get through this together.
It is like when there's an alcoholic in the family. Yes, they are the one that has to stop drinking but it isn't only about them, the whole family has to work together to make it happen.
I plan on him being in my life a very long time, and we both want our M to be stronger. We can do this, I know we can.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
