A quote from the wise and honorable frank_d comes to mind. "true friends don't do what you are doing to friends." You do not have to be friends with anyone you don't want to be friends with. Lost- the most important thing you need to do is take care of yourself and the kids.
You will survuve this. My W moved out about a month ago now. I still miss her terribly, but I am surviving and so will you.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......