Sounds like he does care or he wouldn't be asking.

I do think that's a good goal - find his strengths and remind him of them, things you admire about him...etc. \:\)

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok