Don't know how much of a veteran I am, and my sitch is a little different in that my H has M/W complex (Madonna/Whore) - there's a separate thread for it, but we can try and help out as much as possible and get you through this Choc

It's a rough ride, so hang on

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)