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In terms of my W cuddling in bed, it's always been this way


don't get stuck on this jethro...it's always been that way because perhaps things were never really as bad as she may have "said" they were. yes, I know an a is bad, but if the cuddling was always there means the "wall" never totally went up. appreciate it instead of resenting it.



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I really want your opinions on her focusing so much on my changes...like in our conversation last night. What do you guys think?


what we think isn't really going to help you all that much..is just someone else reading into things or analyzing things for you.

there could be multiple reasons but remember... just as you are watching her (you are aren't you?) she is watching you. obviously whatever "changes" she's seeing in you she is seeing as possitive so keep up with them.


LL