H came over for dinner last night and to watch a favorite tv show (my invitation). During a commercial he handed me 2 hand written pages with his suggestion on a division of our assets and said he thought we would never get better so should just split.
I managed to not cry (just a bit teary eyed) and told him how disappointed I was that he was willing to throw away our marriage without a real try to fix things. What happened to his plan to date me? What happened to our fun summer on the boat? I suggested a longer separation since it has been less than a month but he didn't think that was a good idea. I also said I wasn't prepared to talk financial stuff.
So, now I need to get busy and embrace my uncertainty! UGH!!!
