I hope I can figure out how to do the "link to my old thread" thing, because there's no way I can begin to retype everything that's happened in the past 24 hours.

I'm a 46 year old, high-drive male married to a low-drive/no-drive 46 yera old woman who I think is going thru a MLC. I may post on that board too, but I've reached out to my wife in the past 24 hours and she seems willing to "piece" our marriage back together, and hell, I don't even know what "piecing" is, but here I find myself. Someone on the SSM board suggested I should post here as well.

We've made love twice in the last five years, and haven't at all in three years. We don't kiss, other than a peck goodbye in the morning or hello in the evening, and I think there's a possible EA between my wife and OM right now, as I've caught the text messages on her cell phone. We have a keyloggers on our computer at home, and she's been typing things like "Older Women/Younger Man Relationships" and "How to Look Sexy" into searches. The OM is nearly 20 years younger than she is.

For What's Happened in the past 24 Hours, LINK is HERE

More background HERE

I would appreciate any advice, as I'm terrified.

thanks,

Chocolateeyes