I hope I can figure out how to do the "link to my old thread" thing, because there's no way I can begin to retype everything that's happened in the past 24 hours.
I'm a 46 year old, high-drive male married to a low-drive/no-drive 46 yera old woman who I think is going thru a MLC. I may post on that board too, but I've reached out to my wife in the past 24 hours and she seems willing to "piece" our marriage back together, and hell, I don't even know what "piecing" is, but here I find myself. Someone on the SSM board suggested I should post here as well.
We've made love twice in the last five years, and haven't at all in three years. We don't kiss, other than a peck goodbye in the morning or hello in the evening, and I think there's a possible EA between my wife and OM right now, as I've caught the text messages on her cell phone. We have a keyloggers on our computer at home, and she's been typing things like "Older Women/Younger Man Relationships" and "How to Look Sexy" into searches. The OM is nearly 20 years younger than she is.