I've been S 9 months - no talk of D and no papers filed yet, but think I am ready to walk. Not sure if I should confront H with all the ugly facts I've learned or if I should literally just walk without saying a word. The extent of his lies have caused irreparable damage to our R, even if he is going through MLC.

For all of you who are going through the D process or already D'ed, what do you regret the most? I don't want to regret the way I handle the situation from here on out, whether we reconcile or not...

Thanks for your help.

M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D