Yes, Abby. I think I made it clear to her that I didn't want him wondering what was going on and that I wanted her to tell him it was over. He had no "closure." I just wanted the door shut...I can only hope it stays that way.
Quoting LL:tough as it sounds it really doesn't matter whether you trust om at this point or not, hell I don't trust ow, imho she's still hoping my h will go be with her so she will not have left her h for not, matters not what the op does or says what matters is what you do and say.
