Quote: I "kind of" trust her. The point is, I don't trust the OM.
om matters not! tough as it sounds it really doesn't matter whether you trust om at this point or not, hell I don't trust ow, imho she's still hoping my h will go be with her so she will not have left her h for not, matters not what the op does or says what matters is what you do and say. for now give w the benifit of the doubt, the a is over, contact with om is over. believe in w, trust her remember "innocent until proven guilty" (well in our cases until proven guilty "again".
let go of the om and the a for now and work on the r. stop picking at that scab!! it wont heal if you keep picking at it, put some bacitracin on it (in the form of spending some q time with w, rebuild the r) then deal with the scar.
