Quote: You have got to get the "as if" trust going. You may not trust her right now but you need to act as if.
Abby, I understand your point, and I "kind of" trust her. The point is, I don't trust the OM. Therefore, I wanted her to make it clear to HIM that it was done. I don't want him lurking in our lives with calls to our home and such. I have to draw this boundary, Abby. It was less about her than about him.
