I thought I did, but looking at the whirlwind of the past 24 hours, I really DON'T have one. If you remember how all of this started, I specifically DIDN'T have a plan, and it was that lack of a plan, and the projection, and the hopelessness and the cynicism, that I wasn't doing ANYTHING:
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Again, my goal is to JUST GET STARTED, and so to put off my inertia and do-nothingness.
So my "plan" was merely to DO SOMETHING. To GET STARTED.
Step 1 achieved; but now what?
I do know that I wanted to let my W know how I felt about her, and that's Step 2 achieved.
And I wanted to state to my wife that I would no longer live in an affection-less marriage. Done.
Now I'm guessing that my plan is supposed to be . . . how did everyone state it recently? . . . "cherish" my wife? "Woo" her? "Validate" her?
How do I do these things, without being needy/grabby?
-- Choc., who suddenly realizes he really HAS no plan.
