My main goal in my M is for my H to become more flirtatious. I long for a caress, a kiss on the neck, a foot or back rub, or some eye contact when we are in the bathroom together getting ready for the day or getting ready for bed.
Jeez, I wish my wife was like this!! - she would definitely get more attention from me if she was. I'm someone who loves the long slow romantic buildup of sensuality, the right settings, right mood, very passionate foreplay and sex etc. This makes the moment ultimately means so much more to me then just sex. My wife is all about the crazy animalistic 10 minute frenzy sex, where I end up covered in bruises and bite marks hahaha. Now granted, I will play along on occasion and give her what she wants - but no matter how much I communicate to her - she just isn't into what I want (except maybe once or twice a year.)
Thus, I'm reading through these SSM threads, partially because I feel like my wife suffers alot of what you ladies are going through, because I simply am not that motivated to have sex with her anymore. It's become too predictable and I have many other interests that I'd rather be doing - which I know is the absolute wrong way to be feeling - when it comes down to having sex with my wife.
....One of these days I'm going to figure out what i'm doing wrong
