Quote: So, my quandry here is that I don't think we'd agree on what went wrong in our M
it can become a game of he said she said. you have your thought, feelings, reasons etc.. she has her thoughts, feelings, reasons etc..
the reasons that she gives will change with time or grow to include other things.
my h first stated some things similar to your w's, we were young, he didn't love me like he should have, "it" wasn't really there, he had realized what a r "should" or "could" be when he spent a little time with ow (before our m) but thought "no I should be with LL" but things didn't change...
it is a brainwashing type thing that seems to occur, can even happen to us if we let it.
try not to dwell on what she gives as reasons, she is there and has decided to work on the r. You have realized some of the things you may have done that contributed so work on them.
