Jethro I think the saying "Time heals all wounds" is applicable here. I believe in time she and my H will come off the stance of not being in love w/. I think both of our Ss in the quandry what is the definite of love and what does it really feel like. Until they figure it out we just have to remain strong.
I will say you and KAW give me hope. Hope, that my resolve that my M can withstand all that happened will help my H decide to want to work on the M instead of a D. I know at this point our Ss cant figure out why on earth we would still want them but hopefully throught actions we can show them (even when we are grumpy). I ll check on you later. A
