I am beginning to realize that you can't figure out what they are thinking or why they are doing and acting the way they are. You are doing good to detach and go do things with your D. My boys are good about doing things with me. They talk to their dad but they rely on me more. It makes it tough but we just have to be strong and detach and turn loose as much as we can. I feel like he wants to be best friends and rely on me but then go to her because she must make him feel more important.
We just have to stay busy and GAL and find out who we really are..
Hang in there. The support is here...You are being so strong for you and your D. You will make it.....