Thanks, KAW. I really appreciate the insights. And believe me, I read through your entire thread. I just wanted specific answers to my questions given your experiences. Interesting...
Quote: Afterall, what good is it for her to decide she's in love with you if you haven't reached the point to be able to forgive and accept her love.
I know I need to forgive. Actually, even though she kind of went wierd on me yesterday, I feel like I'm on my way to forgiving. It'll take some time, and naturally I feel anxious about the whole thing, but I'm working through it. She's asked me more than once if I will ever forgive her. Similar to us, me "telling" her I forgive won't change her insecurity regarding forgiveness. I have to just behave as though I've forgiven her. I'm finding this easier.
Do you think your ability to forgive your W specifically drew her closer to you. In other words, do you think she was so moved by your efforts and forgiveness that it helped change her heart?
