Amen Sister!! All these years I kept thinking it was me, and doing whatever I could to entice him, all the time not realizing I was pusing him further and further away. If there was something worth trying, I tried it - all to no avail
But, like you GEL, I at least now understand where he is coming from and it makes life a whole heck of a lot easier for sure. I also can't believe how quickly it has boosted my ego, now knowing it has nothing to do with me.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)