Try understanding an H who says he likes to cuddle yet NEVER EVER gets an erection from that. Mine doesn't ever even find the need to roll away from me (and I can only imagine how painful it is for Heywyre to endure her H turning away from her when he gets one)...and he is fully functioning. There is no need for Viagra or Cialis...he can get and maintain an erection, but he doesn't ever get them with me unless we are working to achieve one. THAT is a HUGE blow to a woman's ego! I've managed to at least find some peace with that now that I understand where his mind is coming from when it comes to sex...and he's working to get past it.
