JRyan, thank you so much for your kind words. Things have actually been extremely difficult for him at work. I work full-time and we also jointly own a landscaping business, which he runs and I handle the accounting. We bought the business 3 years ago and it has really been a cancer between us as we both have very different views on how to run a business. I do believe this is a huge part of the problem but he hates discussing the business and doesn't want to get rid of it. It is really his life's dream so I don't want us to lose it, I just can't figure out how to work together successfully within the business.
He came over tonight and we had a fabulous night with our son. However, we then had to discuss business matters, which put him in a bad mood and set the tone for the rest of the evening. Now I feel bad and, of course, want to call him to discuss but I know that won't help. I think I'm through the desparate calling stage and now just think it's best to let things play out how they will.
Anyway, I'm rambling but I do appreciate your thoughts, they were extremely perceptive! Thx.