The fat lady is warming up.... 2

[alamogirl]

Hey OldFool and everyone else,

Here's an update: I ordered my credit report and found out that my WAH is behind on his car payment. Unfortunately, I'm also on the car note. I'm trying to rebuild my credit...we filed for bankruptcy in 2005. I don't need this now! My therapist told me that the majority of couples who file for bankruptcy get divorced!

Is my H the only one who can remove me from his car note? Can I request it through my divorce decree?

I spoke to my WAH sometime last week. He told me that he quit his job (again). I think he also quit school. I told him to do the noble thing and relinquish his rights to my 401K and retirement...not the best thing to tell him, but he brought it up first. He was complaining to me (again) that our divorce is just dragging on. He once told me that when he was a kid, he contemplated suicide. I hope he doesn't do anything foolish.

All my best,
alamogirl