Ok. My First Thread in Many Moons

[Heywyre]

No one is asking you to trash him but the fact is, he is still the OM and you are defending him more than your own H at this time. One of the things I have learned through all of this, if nothing else, is that the ones that continue to defend the OP while putting pressure on their spouses to be more than they can be (at the moment) are asking to fail. This is not meant to be a criticism but more an eye opener - your H needs you to be there 110% and I don't think you are. Pretty hard to fix a R when you aren't in the game all the way