That is a loaded question. I don't know that the two of us are similar enough for a one to one comparison, so what I would do, should not directly apply to you.
That being said; My greatest "emotional need" is sex - connected sex. It is basically my only need from my wife, I can get by without much else. That makes me a bit odd, but it does fit with my sex drive being what it is.
You probably didn't mean this exactly the way it sounded.
