Hold off on the OM. I know exactly how you feel I have the same power right now. I CAN bring his world to a grinding Holt. BUT…………… This would surly end any chance resolving the problems in my M. I too feel the same way. I have had opportunities to be the OM but I am MARRIED. See my sitch is a little different or then again I may be justifying my W actions a little. Ya see the OM was her BF before we got married so it’s not like they have not had sex before. Now this does not make it right but I do think this was a factor in my W’s fog warped mine that made it a little easier for her. He on the other hand probably told his wife she was going out of state to see a friend. Ya see I love my wife dearly, she IS beautiful in my eyes but in the real world she needs to lose about 80 pounds. She is not the kind of woman guys would take a second look at. So that is why I think this guy is just being a player.
I am holding off my contact with the OM card close to my chest. It may be revenge but if in the end my family is trashed I will be taking a little trip to Washington. Maybe stop by the store he works and drop off some photo’s meet the OM wife for coffee.
See now ya got me doing it. Hold off!! contact will only make your job harder if your really want to save your marriage. Beside if the W and I do work things out. Some day the W and I make take a vacation in Washington and stop and look at some garden furnisher if ya know what I mean….
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
