Hey, girl, I truly am following along, I'm just not really sure what advice to give you.

I guess, really, the whole DB'ing process could apply. I didn't see anywhere where he actually said he wanted a D, just sometimes says he doesn't want to work on things or doesn't think it's going to work, etc., etc., right?

When H dropped D bomb on me, I just never gave up. I just continued to love him. Yeah, it sucks and you never know when they are going to finally "turn that corner," but just hang in there. Just be patient, continue to love him and support him and just go about your business acting "as if" nothing is wrong.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10