I know in my mind that the A's were HIS issues, but I can't quit feeling like I am worthless or not enough and never will be.
One thing I know for sure and that is that there is not one person who is fighting for their marriage that is worthless. You are standing up for what you KNOW is right and good. YOU ARE a GREAT person - don't ever forget that. Even with all of my H blaming and anger, I will never allow him to make me feel worthless. You are more than enough and your H is a fool.