Now don't take that personally you know I love you.
I know you do and appreciate it too
However, it really doesn't have anything to do with us "mothering" them although M/W men do have a tendancy to be drawn towards women that are very nurturing (due to the lack of it they got when they were infants) however, withdrawing from them in that aspect, at least I have found, just makes them upset all the more. Then it becomes "what's wrong, what did I do that you don't take care of me anymore" etc. They like it but they don't - kinda hard to explain.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
