He views a wife as ONE type of woman, and a woman you have sex with as a completely separate woman.
I get that, I really do. I understand, I've been there and felt that.
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In his mind the two women can never meet.
Now that's where I challenge you. First of all, never say "never". You know those two girls that I mentioned in my last post. The one's I respected too much to ML to. Well, in both cases, after we broke up, they were with other guys and guess what? I wanted them. I kicked myself in the butt for not ML to them. And I definately could have after that. So I'm saying that your H's hearts' might change, but it may take YOU changing first! And don't ever give me any hogwash about something will "never" happen because then I'll have to hurt you.
Love,
COG
You may think you've tried everything but honestly you have'nt!
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
