I have documented evidence over the past year regarding how much time the kids are with me over time they are with her.
In the divorce that my ex agreed to I have the primary residence of the children and full joint custody.
In addition my daughter is old enough if asked by the court where she wants to live... she would stay with me my son would go with his mother... this has been discussed just in case.
I do hope that at some point AFTER the daughter issues are resolved there may be some MC... At the least to help my ex and I stay on Civil terms if things are done.
Hence my concern that talking with the same counselor might be a plus towards that concept.
My daughter has enough steel in her to not validate what her mother is doing and regardless of what my Ex is there to acomplish
I was very proud of my little lady for her view of how her mother spent her weekend, it was a very adult perspective.
I have been dealing with the OM in the picture for a year now, Becasue of him in her life my ex and I arent allowed to hang out, do things together as a family or friends... anything remotely resmebling that and he would "dump" her.
My Ex may have had her eyes opened by her daughter if she continues on this path she will loose the connection she has with her Daughter.
My daughter views her mothers BF as a bad influence in her life from the point of view that her Mothers time (when she isn't working) should be spent with kids instead is constantly monopolized by her relationship with him. Thus her response is that her mom should stop seeing the BF at least for a while until her Mother learns some balance.
