Last night, after my W worked out with her trainer, she came home, spent like an hour on the phone, then finally relaxed on the couch. I went over and sat by her. She said "I know it's our anniversary, but I'm just tired".
I'm not quite sure how to take it. Did she think I was trying to get her to have sex? Was it a commentary on state of marriage? Or what? We went to bed soon after and as usual no kiss (except to her forehead).