This is good. And good for you for knowing it was time to get off the phone.
Don't worry about the mind reading. I learned that as scary as ambiquity is on their part, it was a good thing. KEEP living those changes you've made in you for YOU. I'd put a little distance if you can - this will remind her that she is "losing" her fall back as you tread on with your life. Be there if she is a disaster of course - but remember to AA....
And did you learn anything about waking a sleeping lion?
Good luck,
Sven
Thanks Sven, I kind of thought it was a good thing. At least she is back to thinking about it, the whole lot of it, rather than just thinking how much better life will be once she can get the D pushed through. Again, if that was at all part of the "lot" that she had to think about.
Definitely heeding your advice re; living the changes. It actually feels better as each day goes by. Not that there aren't moments, but overall, I'm starting to feel really positive as a state of being rather than a state of doing.., if that makes sense.
I thought some more about the waking her incident. I probably wouldn't have been happy about being awakened at midnight either, not if it was something she could just handle. Add in the history there and I set myself up for a fall on that one for sure.
Thanks again, last night I took my girls swimming at the Y, tonight I'm off to softball games and a great night with my kiddies. What a great life.
