Now you are starting to see what I mean about him just not wanting it. It's worse than "oh no, she's going to get pregnant" thought because you don't even enjoy doing it in the first place.

And, yes, they do put the brakes on in a certain way

For instance, if H cuddles up to me and (rarely) starts to get aroused. He will IMMEDIATELY turn over, make an excuse his leg hurts, back hurts, anything. It's like a switch gets flipped and he just can't go there.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)