Cadesmom, you have to work on being a you that you can be proud of, and worry less about the part of your identity you get from your husband.
His job is to show you that he was wrong and that he thinks you are the best wife a guy could have.
You have always been "good enough". You were before you married him, you are now.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
